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      <title>just a reminder</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/256.html</link>
      <pubDate>Wed, 22 Mar 2006 07:46:18 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>some positive reinforcements!
 
&quot; 'Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.' We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we subconsciously give other people... (more)</description>
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      <title>if only...</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/255.html</link>
      <pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2005 03:01:19 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>got a dvd copy of if only and saw it last night.  cried a bucket of tears.  the thing is, the movie really saddened me, not because of the ending but because the guy had only one day where in he experienced what it is to love another...  that for me was the tragic part, and not when he died.  i mean all that time with his girlfriend, he learned how to love for only one day...  



just recently i have learned to let go and look at the positive side of things...  i think, over time, i have grown up to know when to let go without any bitterness or anger...  i am able to be more accepting of... (more)</description>
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      <title>i can only hope</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/254.html</link>
      <pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 17:03:23 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>i hope that its true, i hope that i havent been replaced...  thanks to E!  you know who you are!  love that line - love without limits...</description>
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      <title>a lifetime...</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/253.html</link>
      <pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2005 02:16:42 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>they say that there is  time and reason for things...  maybe this is so, but i also believe in keeping friendships at the very least.  maybe, not everyone is here to stay...  i am deeply saddened by the fact that M and i are no longer friends...  it saddens me because, we were once planning a lifetime but now not only is the lifetime gone but so has the friendship.  i go through life knowing that it is a risk.  we gamble everyday...  i also know that in life, you win some, you lose some but it doesnt make me bitter or hard... when things were starting with M and i, i was in such a dilema... (more)</description>
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      <title>good bye!</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/252.html</link>
      <pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2005 02:03:47 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>to M, this is for you!  im glad to see the truth, it always comes out.  you'll never find another one like me!!!  now its time to move on!!!

&quot;When you lose someone... and you think you were the one who loved most, between

the two of you... he lost more. For someday you can love someone the way that you loved him...But he will never be loved again the way that you did.&quot;



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      <title>closing cycles</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2005 06:01:32 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>its funny what life brings, thats a line that i always use...  coz its true...  its funny how my life has turned out to be from who i am as a child, as a teenager, and now as an adult...  this year will be one hell of a challenge...  not yet mid way through the year and so many things have happened.  i think that my growth for the first few months of this year can be summed up to a whole years growth.  to think were only on the fourth month!  woohoo boy!  what a year its going to be!   



spoke to a friend last night.  we haven't really really been in touch as much as i have wanted but... (more)</description>
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      <title>how do you say goodbye...</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/250.html</link>
      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2005 00:37:35 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>there was a good line the movie hitch that says:  life is not about every breath you take, its the moments that take your breath away....  is it just the moments...  what happens when the moment is over...  i think the problem is that sometimes all we have are moments and nothing but the memories of these that we are hanging on to...



how do you start to let go... how do you start the process of goodbye if you were not yet ready to leave...  where did it all go...  where did the moments go...  was it nothing to you???  at one point in time, i thought that i met the right person... the one... (more)</description>
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      <title>unfounded fears</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/249.html</link>
      <pubDate>Sat, 05 Mar 2005 00:48:11 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>all my life, i have been wanting to be with the right one and now that he comes along, i have this overwhelming fear...  fear of what?  i dont really know but i know that im afraid...  why?  its funny how i cant seem to take that leap for the right one???  life is full of surprises, twists and turns, ups and downs...  over the past few months (actually at the start of this year) i have seem myself morphing into a different person, more of a woman...  i know myself more...  and slowly im letting go of all of my unfounded fears and am starting to reach out to what i want...  its not easy to... (more)</description>
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      <title>if i were you...</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/248.html</link>
      <pubDate>Sat, 26 Feb 2005 02:47:51 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>I dont really know if you guys kjnow this song.  if you have heard it - great!  but if not, i suggest try to download this song!

 


IF I Were You (candee jay)


If I were you

I would never let me go

If I were you

I would always love me so

If I were you
I can't play your part in life

but I would surely walk my way

I cannot think the way you think

But I would never go away
You can trust me when I say

That I will always be for real

You can always count on me 

No matter how alone you feel
If I were you

I would never let me go

If I were you

I would always love me... (more)</description>
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      <title>love...</title>
      <link>http://girl1978.blogdrive.com/archive/247.html</link>
      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Feb 2005 01:49:22 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>while having a ym conversation with a friend, this is what she told me:


be thankful you're feelings these things.  most people die without ever seeing colors like this in their lives -- they never felt so passionate about something, they never felt so happy or so blue. for most people life is just a steady heartbeat. for you, at least you can say when you were 26 your lovelife was a total mess! spice of life!  




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