I dont really know if you guys kjnow this song.  if you have heard it - great!  but if not, i suggest try to download this song!
 
IF I Were You (candee jay)

If I were you
I would never let me go
If I were you
I would always love me so
If I were you

I can't play your part in life
but I would surely walk my way
I cannot think the way you think
But I would never go away

You can trust me when I say
That I will always be for real
You can always count on me
No matter how alone you feel

If I were you
I would never let me go
If I were you
I would always love me so
If I were you

I would never..
I would always..

I can't tell you what to do
I can only hope for more
More decisions to be good
Like the way they were before

I can't dream the things you dream
'Cause I would not know where to start
Life is never what it seems
When two souls are far apart

I don't wanna know
How it feels to lose a friend
And if I were you
I would never leave again

If I were you
I would never let me go
If I were you
I would always love me so
If I were you

last night, i went to a birthday party of a good friend.  it was all about women empowerment.  this year has again shown me the incredible strength that i have that even i never thought i had it in me...  although things arent as rosy as they should be, im learning to take things one day at a time...  and in this lifetime that we are given, its all about us... yes, it maybe selfish but lets not live our lives according to the expecations of other people, we live it for ourselves and try to have no regrets...  as what my friend said, when your down, there's no where to go but up! day by day, im learning, living and not looking back with regrets...  i can only wish for things to get better and for clarity to come by me.   the first time i heard the song above, i knew that it was my song...  infact, it should be everyone's song...  we should know what we deserve and never settle for less...  if there is something i have learned from M2, its living life day by day...  live life like you mean it...  we may not have tomorrow...